Oct 26
How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics
Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
She returns your call without you even asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.
By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.
I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.
Play on her good memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.
When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.
Jealous curiosity
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Other may look on them as wrong, but they aren’t going to do any lasting harm. They are quite simple and harmless. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.
If you want to discover a step by step system that will take you by the hand while you try to win her back, then check out my website…MakeupNotBreakup.com
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